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Emily Simerly, Ph.D. |
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Mental health medications for children: A
primer for school professionals. Author of essays about life and psychology.
Here are two excerpts from my article on why I love my day job: I Come from Privilege I
come from privilege. I left there about an hour ago. While
I’m there, I’m reminded that I’m privileged because I see miracles
happen daily. The privilege I speak of is a men’s prison. Most people
I know, therapists and otherwise, have no sympathy for criminals.
With prisoners, it’s not an I and Thou, it’s an Us and Them. The
incarcerated folk are a good repository for our revenge needs, our
sense of righteous anger, our moral superiority. It’s easy to look
down on a group who seem so justly to deserve their current fate.
We can curl our lips at inmates: we are afraid of them, they deserve
it, they bring it on themselves (which you may recall was and sometimes
is said about rape victims and others who have been harmed), just
pick a reason. They are the lowest caste in our country. They are
our untouchables. Another
inmate I work with is ill with AIDS. He is “poor white trash,” as
we used to designate them, with a speech impediment and a quite
low IQ, culture-fair or otherwise. But I sit mesmerized by him in
therapy group as he confronts others much better off than he is
about their own self-destructive behavior, as he talks about his
constant suicidal thoughts, as he thanks the group for letting him
talk about his shame. Retarded, you say? According to whom? This
same inmate, who cannot take the cocktail medicines that are so
helpful against HIV, occasionally comes for an individual session.
At the last one, we talked about telling his family and how hard
that will be and about his hopes for the future. He got up to go
but when he got to my door, he turned to me and said, “Thank you
for helping me be human again. It makes dying easier.” And here are some excerpts from other articles
and my book that I find especially pleasing: Medications for Children: A Primer for School Professionals Chapter 1 excerpt: Children, it is said, are our most precious resource. If this is true, then it is incumbent upon us to provide them the very best care possible. Our idea for writing this book stemmed from our belief that the knowledge and experience we can provide practitioners can help children receive the care that will create a better next generation. We wanted to help those who are on the frontlines every day – teachers, school administrators, school psychologists, nurses, parents, and grandparents – make the myriad daily decisions that go into forming a healthy child. Raising
children in the world today is a very complex task that gets only
more complex with each passing year. We created this book to serve
as a reference guide for understanding and working with school-aged
children and adolescents. We are also aware that the book could
be useful and of benefit to a larger circle of others who have crucial
input into the welfare of children. Thus, we designed the book primarily
for school personnel but invite others to use it as it is helpful. From Desert Borders, published in Voices, Summer 1990: The dry, hostile, prickly vista of the desert is as far from the warm, soft, wet furrow of the South Georgia I grew up in as a borderline is from an earth mother. I spent 20 years in the dampness that defines South Georgia. My early dreams and nightmares had to do with water and responsibility. The atmosphere begged for green growth – mildew and moss, lush grass and thick overhang were all a part of the verdant home I knew. Many unknowing souls refer to the South as “backward” and “ignorant.” I believe that the real truth about us is not that we are backward, but that we are primitive. We have not evolved in the way the rest of the country has – we are still in a transitional stage of evolution, where ontogeny has a shorter phylogeny to recapitulate. We still have the vestiges of gills in our jaws, so that when we are out running in the heavy aquarium of morning dew, we can filter oxygen out of the water that is supposed to be air. Our world has not forced as much adaptation. Thanks for visiting the website! |
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